Shoulder People

What are Shoulder People?

Shoulder People are the little people that everyone has (except sociopaths) that whisper in your ear. You know the one you hear telling you “This is wrong” or “You know better than that” or “You shouldn’t be doing that”, etc.

They usually live on the left shoulder. The right as we are being shown is the bad side. This is where the other shoulder people live. The ones that tell you “But it will be so much fun”, “no one will ever know” and “it’l feel so good”, etc.

So as you ruminate over the decision of what shoulder to listen to, remember you should always listen to Slim, Dick, Ed and Sac. They always tell you the truth, at least the way they see it. But for sure you can always count on these Shoulder People to entertain, lift your spirits and brighten your day (or night).

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A story about Shoulder People


Tom was a shy and timid boy who had trouble making friends. He always felt like he was not good enough, smart enough, or cool enough to fit in. He had a shoulder person named Sam, who was kind and supportive. Sam would encourage Tom to be more confident, to try new things, and to express himself. Sam wanted Tom to be happy and successful.

One day, Tom had a crush on a girl named Lisa, who was in his class. He wanted to talk to her, but he was too nervous. He asked Sam for advice. Sam told him to be brave and to compliment her on her smile. Tom gathered his courage and approached Lisa. He said hello and smiled. Lisa smiled back and said hello. Tom felt a surge of joy and said, “You have a beautiful smile.” Lisa blushed and thanked him. They started a conversation and found out they had a lot in common. Tom felt a connection with Lisa and asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. Lisa agreed and gave him her phone number. Tom was ecstatic and thanked Sam for his help.

Lisa had a shoulder person named Lana, who was mean and spiteful. Lana would criticize Lisa, make her feel insecure, and sabotage her relationships. Lana wanted Lisa to be miserable and lonely. Lana was jealous of Lisa’s beauty, intelligence, and popularity. She hated Tom and wanted to break them up.

Lana whispered to Lisa, “He doesn’t really like you. He’s just using you. He’s probably lying to you. He’s probably seeing someone else. He’s probably laughing at you behind your back. You should dump him before he dumps you. You should hurt him before he hurts you.” Lisa felt a wave of doubt and fear. She started to question Tom’s sincerity and loyalty. She started to avoid him and ignore his calls and texts. She started to act cold and distant. Tom was confused and hurt. He asked Lisa what was wrong. Lisa said, “Nothing. I just don’t think this is working out. I think we should see other people.” Tom was devastated and begged her to stay. Lisa said, “Sorry, it’s over.” She walked away and left him alone.

Sam was angry and sad. He tried to console Tom and to explain that Lisa was not the one for him. He tried to remind him of his qualities and his potential. He tried to motivate him to move on and to find someone better. But Tom was too heartbroken and depressed. He blamed himself and lost his self-esteem. He isolated himself and gave up on his dreams. He stopped listening to Sam and started listening to the voice in his head that said, “You are worthless. You are hopeless. You are unlovable.”

Lana was pleased and smug. She congratulated herself on her victory and on her power. She enjoyed Lisa’s pain and regret. She enjoyed Tom’s despair and misery. She enjoyed the chaos and the drama. She said to herself, “I am the best. I am the boss. I am the master.”


This is a story about shoulder people. It is a fictional story, but it has a message. It shows how the people we listen to can affect our lives, for better or for worse. It shows how we should be careful about who we trust and who we follow. It shows how we should be aware of our own thoughts and feelings, and how we should choose them wisely. It shows how we should be kind and respectful to ourselves and to others, and how we should seek happiness and peace. It shows how we should be our own shoulder people, and how we should be the best versions of ourselves. 🙌

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